It’s been a long week. We got back from San Diego and we were immediately thrown back in to real life…bills, school (Mother’s Day Out), design jobs…the list goes on and on. The house has been a disaster and our four suitcases are still sitting in our room waiting to be unpacked. My oldest has been having a really hard time with all the change. We’ve been in constant transition since he was about 1 1/2 and he just doesn’t do well with all the change…poor guy.
Today all I wanted to do was to clean the house top to bottom. Laundry and dishes were piled high, every room needed to be deep cleaned, and I had two kids vying for my attention. So, reluctantly I put off my plans and headed to the park. It was fun getting to tromp around with my two boys seeing them use their imagination. I was reminded that I don’t want to miss this. I don’t want to look back and think, “I wish I had spent quality time with my children when they were 2, 3, 4….”
I know so often I catch myself saying, “Hold on, let me do….” or “I’m busy, let me do this and then…”. Yesterday I asked Kaisson if he would help me put away a puzzle and his response was, “I’m busy.” Ouch!
Last week we had the opportunity to listen to Mark Jones at our church. He spoke on our kids and talked about a book called The Seven Desires of Every Heart. He said that every person has seven desires: be heard and understood, receive affirmation, be blessed (Saying ‘I’m proud of you’, etc), be safe, be touched, be chosen, and be included. Pretty timely considering all that has gone on this week!

So, I’ve got to make a conscious effort to turn off the computer, put design jobs out of my head, forget about the dishes and laundry for a little while, and focus on my kids giving them all of me. I know that they will be blessed and I will be blessed too.


Check out Mark’s website Mr. Mark’s Classroom for his blog posts and teaching resources.